Appearances 

My hair has gone through quite the transformation over the years.  I decided to let it go grey in my early forties as I needed agency going through my divorce.  One friend criticised this decision as her opinion cast me looking old in my grey locks.  But the first thing I noticed was colleagues took…

To the person who caused me pain

 I imagined on my walk into work this morning, how healing it would feel for me to be able to have a conversation with you about my perspective.  How I long for validation from you on my difficulties.  In my mind this would feel like a balm to my wounds. I realize that I already…